Why do we need to be sexy anyway? Sexy is a label given to us by “society.” I would rather be beautiful…but that is a post for another time!
I was driving to work this morning and I saw a young lady walking like she had Barbie legs….you know the ones I mean. From the 50’s. The old kind that didn’t bend at the knee like the ones that do now. I was thinking perhaps she had on leg braces that I could not see. Then as I got closer I realized her pants were so tight she could hardly move. Can we just agree that TIGHT IS NOT SEXY!!!
For all that is good DRESS YOUR BODY!
Slim fitting is far different from TIGHT!
Can we all just say NO to tight!
If you get marks on your body from your pants or tops….TOO TIGHT!
If you can’t breathe….TOO TIGHT!
If you have to hold your breath to tie your shoes….TOO TIGHT!
If you walk like you have a no knees….. TOO TIGHT!
If you walk like you have a smartphone in your nether regions….TOO TIGHT!
If I can read the size label of your bra….TOO TIGHT!
If I can count your ribs or rolls….TOO TIGHT!
If you are rocking a good old camel toe…TOO TIGHT!
I am not saying we should put on gunny sack dresses from ear to ankle. I am saying dress for you. Dress for your body type and be comfortable. There is nothing SEXY about a girl (or guy) who can not walk like a normal human. We have been fed this plate of garbage from “hollywood” that in order to be beautiful you need to give up all the goods. No. That is a lie straight from the pit of hell. There is no shame in buying the next size up in order to be comfortable. Beauty is not about size! It is about grace and dignity and squaring your shoulders each day, tossing on a smile and be YOU!